Lazarus, while I am sure you mean well, I am astounded to read anything so harsh on this board where people are really, really vulnerable about sexual identity issues as:

"I've never met a man or woman who called themselves bisexual who wasn't really gay and just afraid or unwilling to admit it."

Fair enough you said *you* had not met one, but for the posterirty of this thread -- I have met tons and tons of them.