ahhh...the penis...wouldn't you know. I am basically straight, been married for years and yet I desire that as well sometimes. I don't know if I am bisexual or seeking that "object" that changed my life so long ago. Sometimes, it doesn't seem like there is rhymn or reason about obsessions (me anyway) AND many times we want a logical answer to such an illogical problem. Hell, I don't even ask the question anymore.(well, thats a lie cause sometimes I still do) To me, it is so normal, apart of my overall desires...the real issue for me is the fear of looking for it and actually acting out. My wife is very understanding...but not that understanding...jake