How hard was it for you to surrender your heart to God and be saved after your abusive pasts? This is my biggest concern for my H - that he has never trusted God enough to be saved. I just wondered if there is anything I can do (besides pray) that he can come to that point of trust. He still does not trust anyone, so I imagine it is hard even to open his heart to the Lord.

This is a very painful realization for me, that his abuse may keep him away from God for all eternity b/c of trust issues.

Any comments would be welcome.


It were better for him that a millstone were hanged around his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
Luke 17:2