I think once you met that right person that melts your heart (male or female) you will come to the decision of who you are attracted to. If you say you are attracted to women then who cares what straight women are saying you should be with. You know in your heart and thats all that matters. When the time comes you will know when it's right. Thier is a saying. "We are all angels with only one wing only with another can we fly." I don't know who wrote it but as you can see thier is no gender. I hope that helped.