Have any of you ever noticed a disconnect between who you are interested in, and who is attracted to you? For example, I'm attracted to women, but most of the people who would date me are other men. I am straight (or at the most bi with a strong preference for women), and went through a phase where I wondered I might be gay until last year. However, when I go up to a straight or bi woman, unless she sees me as a potential boyfriend, she does not usually deal with me on any level, but gay and bi men are willing to be friends and even hit on me. Sometimes, I believe that I should start dating men who partner with men not because I'm as attracted to them as women sexually, but because they are a lot more comfortable with me than women who partner with men. Any thoughts?