I've been watching this discussion with interest, and more than a bit of indecision.
James made a great point when he started the topic, and many guys agree with him. I do as well. but I also agree with Leosha and others that more 'labels' might not be the best way forward.
And I know that many Gay men here do get pissed off when guys come here and, like I did ( confused ) discuss our doubts and fears on the Gay forum in such a way that unwittingly denegrates being Gay.
So this forum seems like a good way forward.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau