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#466310 - 06/06/14 08:50 PM B, accident, dissociation and stuff
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#466492 - 06/11/14 04:59 PM Re: B, accident, dissociation and stuff [Re: Sven]
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#466493 - 06/11/14 05:24 PM Re: B, accident, dissociation and stuff [Re: Sven]
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hey bud
start by breathing man ... long deep breaths what has happened is not your fault. you never betrayed anyone. you never had a choice in what has happened. you didn't bring it on in any way. if he is in jail then that is a good thing. you have no doubt saved many young boys from a world of pain. though that may be small consolation. one thing you may consider is that this thing was never yours to fix. From your stories it seems that your whole life was a forced encounter, nothing you ever got to choose. now you have some choices and THAT can be terrifying. to go from having NO control to having it all on you. but that is what should have been from the beginning. it may seem too much right now so talk to those who are safe, talk to people who can help, try to find ways to defeat the shame man (it was never yours) you deserve EVERYTHING that can be man and you can receive it. I hope that happens soon
Jeff
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#466831 - 06/20/14 01:48 PM Re: B, accident, dissociation and stuff [Re: Sven]
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Edited by Sven (04/08/16 05:20 PM)
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#466843 - 06/20/14 07:24 PM Re: B, accident, dissociation and stuff [Re: Sven]
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Sending you love and support, Sven. Don
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