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#441934 - 07/24/13 12:49 AM On-Line SA Survey
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6387
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
anonymous on-line survey for SA survivors
concerning preferred terminology.

more details here:


#441980 - 07/24/13 09:30 AM Re: On-Line SA Survey [Re: victor-victim]
dark empathy Offline

Registered: 11/26/07
Posts: 2688
Loc: durham, north england
Well I filled the thing in though I don't think my responses are ones they'd have expected, since I basically skipped all the catagories and said I'm genophobic, but some honesty would've helped since basically I didn't even realize what happened until I was 19.

Again though, I tend to be a bad survey participant, since I usually don't like catagorizing my opinions, ---- heck, i refuse to put my race as "white"

Paper is white, chalk is white, I'm kind of a creamy, bronzy, bage type of colour. If you want to know my genetic and racial history I'm caucasian of mostly celtic descent with a lot of ancestors among the lowland scots, ---- but that doesn't make me "white"

#442401 - 07/28/13 02:42 AM Re: On-Line SA Survey [Re: victor-victim]
lostcowboy Offline

Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 798
Loc: Rhode Island
I can't say I liked the survey. At 11 years old, I did not know what most of those words meant. If some one had asked me what happen to you. I would have said a older boy put a knife to my throat, pulled my pants down and stuck his dick in my ass. I would have then asked why anyone would want to do that. I mean we were both guys, did he somehow think I was a girl?

It took me a long time to try and understand it. And once I got on this site I found that most of my idea's were likely wrong.
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!

#442408 - 07/28/13 08:00 AM Re: On-Line SA Survey [Re: lostcowboy]
Jacob S Offline

Registered: 01/01/13
Posts: 690
Loc: where the shadows lie
Originally Posted By: lostcowboy
I can't say I liked the survey. At 11 years old, I did not know what most of those words meant.

Same here. For all the answers I picked "other" and wrote in things like "I need to ask you about when he attacked you." I vaguely knew what sex was, I never put it together until years later that what was done to me had anything to do with sex.
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