it is certainly predatory behavior. but i think the guys in question are trying to practice methods, manners and best practices to analyze stalk and disarm the recovery of legitimate survivors. ive seen stalkers in here (wont but can mention names). they tend to have a specific type of way of speaking and profile. its at least cyber bullying, stalking, or just creepy. sorry you endured that jude
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