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#432493 - 04/26/13 09:57 AM Re: I made a mistake? [Re: CloudyFalls]
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Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 901
Loc: Florida
You should have told someone? Really? If any help CF, I was 15-16 and I didn't tell anyone because I had no clue I could and, even then, WHO would I tell? IF I'd told, looking back, would it have made the situation worse?

Abusive home environment - they'd already threatened to have me "put away" - plus a high school guidance counselor who was in control of my classes, choice of college, etc. And I'm gonna tell? HAH!

No, Little CF didn't make any mistake. And I agree with those who have posted that your father is deflecting blame. I'm pleased to hear you immediately recognized that. Your thinking and assessment is very clear. Well done!

I don't know what kind of control he has over your life right now but, at the least I'd bring it up to the T to see if you can find a way out of it.

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#432556 - 04/26/13 10:37 PM Re: I made a mistake? [Re: CloudyFalls]
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Registered: 07/19/12
Posts: 173
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Thanks for all the support guys, I definitely needed it after that. And I will definitely be bringing this up in therapy.
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