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#494718 - 01/29/16 11:48 AM Re: Penis Fixation ** Possible Triggers [Re: SpiritRisingMan]
tna2016 Offline

Registered: 01/07/16
Posts: 9
I have a fixation to touch, fondle, and give oral pleasure to penises of mature fatherly men with round bellies and buttocks. I don't know where from this has stemmed (I was sexually abused by my eldest sister, and my father was emotionally very distant). I ogle at the crotches and butts of men I am attracted to, but one very important factor for me to like a man is his face: he should have a compassionate face. Out of two men with the same body features, the one with an aggressive/sly looking face will be a put-off. The one with a smiling, round, compassionate face gives me comfort, and I then go about exploring his body through my eyes. I struggle with it, I don't want to do it, but I find it irresistible.
It's hard to understand, but I have no interest in getting physical or romantic with a man (I have never been), yet these attractions create so much helplessness.
I am also attracted to mature kind of women with more voluptuous figures, and not so much to young and slim beauties...
This is the first time I am writing about my attractions on a public forum (apologies if it was a bit explicit), it feels scary, but I am willing to move ahead to clear this confusion. Anyone with similar experiences who can throw some light on these will be greatly appreciated...

#494749 - 01/29/16 10:49 PM Re: Penis Fixation ** Possible Triggers [Re: SpiritRisingMan]
honorableman Offline

Registered: 11/19/09
Posts: 53
Loc: United States
I have enjoyed reading this discussion forum. It is important to note the centrality of our penis to our sexuality and our emotional health. I have learned that my cock is a beautiful wonderful thing at the core of sexuality. Something that is to be proud of and even show off.

I am here to confirm to everyone that we can embrace our cocks despite abuse/assault.
My cock is wonderful , mine and private even despite being tricked and used by bad people who wanted it for their perverse pleasure.

Bad experience just makes me even love it more and appreciate its importance to me and my relationship with my cock trumps anything done to it in the past I didnt like.

Hope this helps some of you other guys. Embrace your cocks!


#497996 - 04/28/16 01:48 PM Re: Penis Fixation ** Possible Triggers [Re: SpiritRisingMan]
CPeterson Offline
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Registered: 12/08/07
Posts: 15
Loc: ND
This may not be long here. I don't honestly don't know where I belong. I've been molested by my step brothers, by three of them, my dad's friend, next door neighbor, teen agers, anal sex, and preforming oral on them.

I feel so discussed with self due to the fact at times, I masturbate and think of another man older than me and playing with a dildo. I just can surpass the feeling of it. I wonder am I ga?

#500730 - 08/12/16 10:22 PM Re: Penis Fixation ** Possible Triggers [Re: SpiritRisingMan]
Searching13 Offline

Registered: 02/08/16
Posts: 9
I too have this fixation of looking at, catching a glimpse of the male organ. I have never acted on anything since I was sexually abused by my older brother for over 10 years. I look online, look at other men In The locker room. I hate the fact this is something I participate in, but I am on a journey to understand why.

#513474 - 07/19/17 12:29 AM Re: Penis Fixation ** Possible Triggers [Re: SpiritRisingMan]
Northmale Offline

Registered: 03/09/17
Posts: 1
I am 41, echo & I am also struggling with penis, ejaculation & cum fixation. When in a public toilet I can't help glancing & thinking of sucking or giving a handjob but it's impulsive thinking & not sexually arousing.
But very early I noticed that when watching porn I was arroused by certain penises & especially by them if they ejaculate copiously & powerfully. Around age 16 I saw my first shemale porn and I felt like everything made sense. Attractive & feminine women but with hard cocks. This attraction was ever present during an 18 year relationship with a woman 20 years older than myself.

I had an affair, the relationship ended & now I've never felt more vulnerable & confused. I am drinking way too much and doing coke as & when I can. I feel like the only way I can accept myself & my past is to get wasted. When wasted I play out explicit fantasy scenarios via text with a 27 year old woman who gets off hearing about the stuff I can shut off when sober.
How do I break all these patterns?

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