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#84895 - 12/18/06 11:57 PM Many still don't see women as sex predators
FormerTexan Offline

Registered: 09/12/04
Posts: 12126
Loc: Denver, CO
Interesting article. Part of it says that boys are being taken seriously as victims.

Money talks, but all it tells me is goodbye.

If I could meet myself as a boy...

#84896 - 12/19/06 02:59 AM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6845
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
Andy, its deeply worrying that 14yo olds find it so difficult to tell, but I can see why they dont as they see themselves pretty much leaping into the adult world.

Predators are aware of this, and maybe that is how it happens to them.
Women are more likely to evade the law, as they are never seen as the aggressor.

Man or Woman, if you rape a kid, you rape them boy or girl, there is no difference other than the male will blame himself for his body reacting to touch.

Its massively difficult, but males sure have a hard time coping with it,


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#84897 - 12/19/06 06:46 AM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
WalkingSouth Offline

Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16270
Loc: Waldport, Oregon
Very informative article, Andy. Tells it straight up as far as it goes, which probably is about as far as the reading public is going to absorb.


"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson

#84898 - 12/28/06 07:45 PM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
duncanUK Offline

Registered: 12/24/06
Posts: 632
what a world we live in where men and women preying on young boys and girls.Its about time the general public woke fucking up and started seeing women perps in the same light as men.


you dont see me. i am not really here. Its my fault.. all of it. I am to blame and no one else.

#84899 - 01/02/07 10:40 PM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
sis Offline

Registered: 10/05/06
Posts: 195
Loc: Arizona
I am a women survivor but there are women perpetrators out there. As i see it the women, whether they were the direct perp or just protecting the perp., they are guilty. The damage is the same in a sense. They took something inocent and pure and distructively used it for their own sick stuff. Women perps need to be treated the same as a male offenders, period. light and luv,sis

#84900 - 01/16/07 09:51 PM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
AshSurvived Offline

Registered: 01/07/07
Posts: 167
Loc: Australia
Reality, I don't read much about rape, but I do know women respond as well, and also that men often don't respond. Just so you know you don't have to feel guilty either way.

There are some great links to sites and even a BBC doco tran>
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#84901 - 01/17/07 07:12 AM Re: Many still don't see women as sex predators
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Registered: 11/03/05
Posts: 1159
Indeed, women perpetrators are perpetrators, period. Boys may be more easily enticed by a female, but a woman sex abuser doesn't deserve a break just because she didn't have to work as hard to commit the abuse.

Children cannot consent; they can only comply.

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