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#8054 - 02/04/05 04:42 PM Giving up fanasties
onlyakid Offline

Registered: 03/31/04
Posts: 1577
Loc: New Jersey
There are many fantasies that I had that helped me cope with the abuse. I read in a post that the poster had given up his fanasties and was fining the real him. I hope that I can do the same.

I think saying these things might make it easier so here I go.

I don't have to have the coolest clothes and be the most popular person around.

I don't have to have a cool hairstyle.

I can be me and thats ok.


"Being with people that understand you...Priceless"

"and i don't want the world to see me, cause i don't think that they'd understand"

"You don't know what love just do as your told"

"My life has changed. What you take as a simple thing, is not so simple for me anymore"

#8055 - 02/06/05 02:44 AM Re: Giving up fanasties
jimrh Offline

Registered: 03/22/03
Posts: 273
Loc: Roswell, GA
Giving up your fantasies might work for a while. Then, when weeks go by and you have no affirmation, check back with your real you and see if it really is holding up.


#8056 - 02/06/05 07:44 PM Re: Giving up fanasties
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6848
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
J, just be you. When you meet someone in the street with personality and a loving smile, it doesn't matter what they wear or their style.
They just shine.
Ever noticed? ;\)


Whoever stole the Sun, put it back and we'll drop all the charges!


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