I am in one of your names with what you say. Of course, I have sympathy for those, who as a result of abuse, have predelictions, desires, FANTASIES about minors, but there is a line we DO NOT CROSS because it's WRONG! No one, NO ONE I DO NOT CARE ABOUT REASONS OR RATIONALIZATIONS, has the right to abuse others. We who have had it done know better than that. Or at least we should.
You abuse ONCE, that may be a mistake. One that I hope can be corrected. You abuse again, you have crossed a line. I WILL NEVER HAVE SYMPATHY FOR THOSE WHO ABUSE!
I don't mean to be harsh, but there is right and wrong in this world. You may be entitled to one mistake, but no one has the right to cross the line again and again. This is the mistake of L.I.E. Big John didn't abuse the hero of the film, but his character abused others and would have continued to abuse other had the author not killed him off.
This is the mistake others fall into. We cannot allow sympathy to blind us to reality.
There are reasons I'm taking medication. They're called "other people." - Me, displaying my anti-social tendancies