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#73029 - 12/30/04 05:08 AM I think it is better to go for now
Branson Offline

Registered: 12/20/04
Posts: 37
Loc: Seal Beach
My boyfriend and I have been talking. And we have agreed that this is not the time to be here. Too many things going on with this website.

We will be back. Maybe when things calm down a little. We have enough to deal with in our relationship right now. And I am getting scared.

So until we come back, please forgive us. And thank you for those of you who ansered us.

Branson and Ian


Can I trade this life for what's behind door number 2?

#73030 - 12/30/04 06:00 AM Re: I think it is better to go for now
yesac76 Offline

Registered: 03/23/04
Posts: 508
Loc: Idaho
We will be here for you both whenever you are ready. I pray you return soon, but take all the time that you need. Hopefully, we can help you when you return. Godspeed.


"You live it or lie it" Metallica

#73031 - 12/30/04 03:16 PM Re: I think it is better to go for now
dwf Offline
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Registered: 05/24/03
Posts: 1223
Loc: Austin, Texas USA
Hello Branson,

I hope you can take away from here some hope in knowing that you are not alone.

And come back whenever you are ready.


"Poke salad Annie, 'gators got you granny
Everybody said it was a shame
'Cause her mama was aworkin' on the chain-gang"

-Tony Joe White

#73032 - 01/03/05 06:46 AM Re: I think it is better to go for now
lostcowboy Offline

Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 798
Loc: Rhode Island
Hi Brandson & Ian, I am sorry that recent happenings have caused you to make the decision to leave. I hope that you continue to read the board as a guest. I thought you would like to know of some books to read. Recovery
by Helen Benedict, is the book I read in 1992 about rape. It was the only book I could find at that time about male rape. It helped to clear some of my wrong thinking! It is also a good book to let your friends read so they will know some of what you are going through.
The other book I have not read, but all the people on the site here who have read it, endorse it. Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse
by Mike Lew, Ellen Bass,

"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!


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