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#72693 - 08/14/04 12:02 AM Re: Backfired
David1010 Offline

Registered: 06/07/04
Posts: 46
Loc: Philadelphia, PA
Where that came from? Maybe from the other guy being gay and liking you. :p Why is that "backfire"? You don't have to like everyone that likes you. When that happens to me, all I say is "sorry, you're not my type", and move on. It's just part of the acceptance process.

#72694 - 08/14/04 01:16 AM Re: Backfired
yesac76 Offline

Registered: 03/23/04
Posts: 508
Loc: Idaho
I hope you realize what a compliment that was! Go on with your bad self! (Okay, I am a bit cheesy!)

"You live it or lie it" Metallica

#72695 - 08/14/04 05:36 AM Re: Backfired
Aden Offline

Registered: 07/05/04
Posts: 499
Yeah...well...Why do you ask?

#72696 - 08/14/04 06:30 AM Re: Backfired
Abe Offline

Registered: 04/28/02
Posts: 27
Loc: New York, NY
In my experience, lots of younger gay men would like some sort of interaction with an older gay man, someone who can provide them with a little mentoring, which is so difficult for young gay men to find. Sometimes that gets mixed up with sex and sexual attraction... I'm not sure what I think about that but I do feel that caring interaction in any form can be valuable. Why not have a coffee or a beer with him?

#72697 - 08/14/04 05:27 PM Re: Backfired
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Registered: 07/15/02
Posts: 2080
Loc: Milwaukee, WI
Seems like this young man is having some struggles. As the other guys have said, I think he may need someone to listen to him more than anything. Take care of yourself and your privacy, but if you can help the Lad, it might be good to do that.


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