Thanks... nice to know there are others out there too. We have too much respect for each other to do this. When I met my partner, it wasn't for the sex (although nothing wrong with the sex), but we saw each other as humans, people, and someone that we wanted to know more. Just the other day, we were talking and I said I just enjoy being with my partner and doing things with him. I don't want to go out and party with the people at work, because I want to be with him instead. And that's after 4 years!
For us, it just keeps getting better and better.