an ex boyfriend -
my very last one -
said to me "you were forced to think of
the 'other' way too early"
the notion came
back - and i feel as though - i thought of myself
as having to 'fit' into someone elses
i should say no more - but
that they should fit into mine ?
not either -
the joining perhaps - is yes we will have two worlds that will come together -
but then too - hopefully what will join us
most - are
our interests and shared likes
that when we go somewhere or are somewhere together -
it is 'our world' we are protecting -
and are safeguarding that.
"...do not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders
"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous