an ex boyfriend -

my very last one -

said to me "you were forced to think of
the 'other' way too early"

the notion came

back - and i feel as though - i thought of myself

as having to 'fit' into someone elses


i should say no more - but

that they should fit into mine ?

not either -

the joining perhaps - is yes we will have two worlds that will come together -

but then too - hopefully what will join us

most - are

our interests and shared likes

that when we go somewhere or are somewhere together -

it is 'our world' we are protecting -

and are safeguarding that.


" not look outside yourself for the leader."
-wisdom of the hopi elders

"...the sign of a true leader is service..." - anonymous