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#69735 - 02/04/06 03:09 AM choices
michael Joseph Offline
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Weird thing is I did love my first wife and second wife. But things have changed throughout the years, and I am where I am at now. I do care about my second wife, it just didnt work out, and now I wanted something different. I struggled with orientation my since I was 10. I am happy where I am at.

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#69736 - 02/04/06 03:54 AM Re: choices
markgreyblue Offline
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
Michael - I am so happy for You -

This is clearly so good -

I love you Michael -

I love your strength and courage and this post is
wondeful

blessings!
xoxox

Mark

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#69737 - 03/26/06 05:28 PM Re: choices
michael Joseph Offline
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Well I cannot be anyone but me, and I am quite happy where I am at.

I gave up everything I owned to leave and start over.

Eventhough I miss the dogs, and cats, I and glad I am where I am at.

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#69738 - 03/26/06 05:39 PM Re: choices
markgreyblue Offline
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that is so great -
i want o hug you michaeljoseph -

that is awesome -
i would miss the pets too -

i love my birds -

congrats -

mgb

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#69739 - 03/26/06 06:19 PM Re: choices
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Michael,

I know those choices are difficult to make - the prejudice and ignorance of traditional society sees to that. So all the more reason for you to feel proud of who you are: someone who is prepared to be honest with himself in the face of opposition and expect others to accept him as he is, as a matter of right.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#69740 - 03/26/06 07:07 PM Re: choices
pbfurm Offline
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Registered: 03/12/06
Posts: 25
Loc: Los Angeles
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#69741 - 03/26/06 11:05 PM Re: choices
michael Joseph Offline
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you mean after putting me in jail and lying to the cops, and treating me like crap for 4 years.

She didnt want the 2 children we were adopting, and she didnt want me either, if I was loved I would not have left.

You don't know what I have been through. It is not one sided. Why would you need to know?

I really think that the question could have been worded a bit different. I never planned all this for sure there would have been a easier way though the last 10 years of my life.

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#69742 - 03/27/06 12:53 AM Re: choices
markgreyblue Offline
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Registered: 12/19/03
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pb - i think you really need to apologize -

for your inensitivity -

affrontery -

and lack of humanity -

markgreyblue

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#69743 - 03/27/06 12:55 AM Re: choices
markgreyblue Offline
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Registered: 12/19/03
Posts: 5400
Loc: Pasadena, CA
sorry but i really am angry with your assumptions

get help

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#69744 - 03/27/06 01:32 AM Re: choices
johnsurvived Offline
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Registered: 11/20/05
Posts: 332
Loc: Arlington, Virginia
I think the point here is that if one wants to know how the ex-wives are doing, one needs to ask the ex-wives. pbfurm, can you give some clarification of where your question is coming from?

John

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