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#6762 - 04/18/03 03:50 AM For Alan
Mike Church Offline
Moderator Emeritus
Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
As you all may or may not know Little Alan is in the hospital and his surgery went well but he is now battling pneumonia and cannot breath on his own.

Marc who is Alan's partner has asked that we start a post to wish him well and that he will read it to Al tomorrow.

So my brothers here is a chance to maybe make a difference.

I am gonna start.

Alan we have known each other for too short a period and I want it to last much longer. You are the little brother I always wanted and never had. I have never known anyone so generous in their support or so kind. Everyone here at wants to say hello and we look forward to seeing in chat again and offering your thoughts and posts.
For myself I need the love that you shared with me. It has made this old guy feel a whole lot better about himself.
Al my little brother there is so much for us to share and I pray with all my heart to hear you once more in chat and of your life with Marc and the lady Whiskey.
If I could be there I would Al. But if not in body I am there for you in spirit.
You are a kind and gentle man and I love you.



#6763 - 04/18/03 04:11 AM Re: For Alan
Sick Puppy Offline

Registered: 03/30/03
Posts: 300
Loc: Nowhere Land
I am so sad about this. \:\( I did not know Al very well but I talked to him many times in the chat and he is a wonderful person. I always thought about how great it was that someone so young came here. I could see he had many difficulties but he was always helpful and funny and a great person to talk to. I hope with all my heart that he would make it through this. If I could go to that hospital I would and stand by his side. Al is our little brother and I am rooting for him. \:\(

And one day we will die
And our ashes will fly
From the aeroplane over the sea
But for now we are young
Let us lay in the sun
And count every beautiful thing we can see

Neutral Milk Hotel - In the Aeroplane Over the Sea

#6764 - 04/18/03 06:09 AM Re: For Alan
johnshea Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 04/10/03
Posts: 11
Loc: upstate NY
Young Al,
You have so recently been a voice of strength and reason to me and I miss you.You will get well my friend, and hurry, Whiskey needs someone she can take for a walk.You are in my thoughts and in my heart.

Love, Johnshea


#6765 - 04/18/03 06:19 AM Re: For Alan
Usel51 Offline

Registered: 03/03/03
Posts: 11
Loc: Topeka, KS
Al, this is usel-51. I am very sad to hear you are in the hospital. We haven't known each other well or long, but have always looked forward to talking with you in chat. you may not realize but you have been a great support to me. I hope I have been able to be a support to you also. I miss you, and look forward to when you are back with us again. I hope you are getting great care there, and the nurses are spoiling you. Please keep fighting and get better real soon. Love from another brother, Steve

#6766 - 04/18/03 07:26 AM Re: For Alan
Ivanhoe Offline

Registered: 03/19/03
Posts: 1907
It's me, the old guy, Ivanhoe. I just stopped by to give you my best and hope that you're recovering steadily. You know, we didn't get to share much. You told me some of your story and I didn't get a chance to share my story with you. I hope that the stories you've heard haven't been too depressing for you. You've always been so supportive to the other guys, I know that they miss you. Come back and give this old gizzer another chance to get to know you better. One of your older brothers who's got your back,
Love, David

"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."
George Eliot

#6767 - 04/18/03 05:05 PM Re: For Alan
tallsteve Offline
Moderator Emeritus
Registered: 12/06/02
Posts: 404
Loc: Boston, MA
Dear Alan,

Tallsteve here. My thoughts and prayers are and have been with you for the the last few days. I miss you in the chat room now and pray for your speedy recovery. Having talked with you a lot, I know your strength and determination, it has supported and inspired me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and insights, openly and honestly. You have given me quite a bit. I am grateful.

Your emails are touching and mean a lot to me. THANK YOU. I will save them. It was an honor to sort stuff out with you. I was glad to help you.

Brother Alan, I miss you. I send my heartfelt good wishes, prayers, and support for your recovery and return to your life with Marc and the dog and this chat room. Oh yeah, I also include a Get Well wink too!!! With much love and a big hug, Tallsteve

#6768 - 04/18/03 08:59 PM Re: For Alan
Wuamei Offline

Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
Al take care of yourself, get better, talk to you again soon.

Marc you take care too.


"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."
--Daffy Duck

#6769 - 04/18/03 10:52 PM Re: For Alan
joseph7 Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 02/02/03
Posts: 18
Hi, AL:
You may not remember me from MS chat but I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and wishing you good health. You are loved and cared for. The guys here need you around. Okay, man? JOSEPH

#6770 - 04/19/03 02:33 AM Re: For Alan
jimrh Offline

Registered: 03/22/03
Posts: 273
Loc: Roswell, GA
Hey Al, Jim here. I haven't known you long but the few times I've chatted with you have meant alot to me. I hope that through your pain you can see some hope, you gave that to me in many ways. I pray that you will get better with each day, aware of the sun, it's warmth and feeling this warmth we're trying to send to you right now with these messages. Please come back soon Al!

Jim in Atlanta

#6771 - 04/19/03 05:21 AM Re: For Alan
PeteT Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 03/03/03
Posts: 28
Loc: Michigan

Hey man,I miss you! Get better soon and get back to your freinds here in chat. We need you buddy. You've been a really big help to me in the last couple months and I like to get to know you better in the months to come. So get better and get your butt back in to chat.

Love ya,


#6772 - 04/19/03 05:27 AM Re: For Alan
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Hi Al,
We have never talked, but you are my brother non the less. My prayer are with you. I hope you get better soon so I can say hi to you in the chat, from the post I've read you sound like a person I would like to get to know. Lots of love and prayers for you and yours.

I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#6773 - 04/19/03 08:09 AM Re: For Alan
Nathan LaChine Offline

Registered: 02/22/03
Posts: 5427
Loc: Washington State
My dearest brother Al,

How can I sum up how much I care for you in just a few short sentences? I wish all the best of luck my brother. I cannot wait to talk with you and Marc again. I want you to know Al that I have not cut my self in two weeks now thanks to you. You will get better I know this because for the first time in over ten years I went to church and prayed that I will not loss any more brothers this year and if I was to loss another brother lighting was to hit my car and my car is still in one peace so so you will be just fine my brother.

I love you Al please take care of your self and I wish you a fast and speedy recover my brother,

Love little brother, Nathan

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