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#67074 - 07/10/03 04:35 PM The hearing is on.
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Registered: 06/12/02
Posts: 577
Loc: Canada
BF just received word that his case is going to a hearing. It will happen in about six months. Not sure how he's feeling about it yet - the professional ethics board just contacted him. (this is not a legal case but through a professional association).

Now some people in a position of authority and power know about this fucking creep.. the proverbial cat is out of the bag - the abuse is no longer a secret.

Fuuck.. thinking of this perp - he's had access to kids (and still does) for well over 20 years now - how many lives has he ruined??? I'm sure my BF is NOT the only case.. how can this just go on without anyone ever knowing what freaks like this are up to?

Fuuk.. each step of this case is just churning up so many emotions for both of us.. my head is just pounding. I want to cry and throw up at the same time.

- soccer

#67075 - 07/10/03 05:03 PM Re: The hearing is on.
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Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
((((((hugs for you and your BF))))))

Stay brave.


I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#67076 - 07/10/03 06:11 PM Re: The hearing is on.
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Registered: 06/12/02
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Loc: Canada
Thanks - just talked to the BF - he feels happy that finally someone else in a position of authority over his perp. Happy that others now see that what happened was wrong and is worth investigating - giving some legitimacy to his pain after 17 years, finally taking the blame off of himself and onto the perp. WHEEEEEEE!!!!!!I just got off the phone with him and he kind of gave a "yeahhoo awhooo!" kind of sound.

But he also said that there are all kinds of other mixed emtions going on - kind of like me - we want to dance on air, cry, and barf all at the same time. Weird.

Good thing that we have 6 months to ramp up to and prepare for the hearing, get some time with a T, etc. if it was in say.. a month, that would be scary.

#67077 - 07/11/03 06:28 PM Re: The hearing is on.
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that must be a mixed bag of emotions for sure, make sure you take care of yourselves before it all starts.

And keep us posted, we're here to support and cheer you both on.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau


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