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#66778 - 11/02/06 06:14 AM Work Suggestions
tservo Offline
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Registered: 07/26/06
Posts: 21
Loc: Illinois

Over the past few months I have spent more time with my friend who reveiled his csa to me. He has been having such a hard time holding down a job and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for what may be suited to him. He has a hard time interacting with strangers.

Thanks so much.

#66779 - 11/02/06 03:59 PM Re: Work Suggestions
sis Offline

Registered: 10/05/06
Posts: 195
Loc: Arizona
Dear tservo,
Not knowing much about your friend makes it alittle difficult to answer this but i will say from experience that i am also not quite sure what to do when i grow up. What i do do is i pray. To a higher power of my choice. The answers will come, the perfect job will come, the universe is all knowing and has plans for each and everyone of us. Do the foot work and things will work out for the higher good of all. I too have issues being around people and i have been working on a few projects that i would like to see come to pass. People healing from csa often times don't know what really inspires them. Tell your friend to try and find out what it is that he really enjoys doing. Then explore avenues to possibly make money doing it. Again, pray!!! universal luv and support, Sis

#66780 - 11/07/06 04:51 AM Re: Work Suggestions
sexslave Offline
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Registered: 05/05/06
Posts: 16
Loc: Texas
Hi tservo,
I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend has had several different jobs over the past 5 years. He was jobless for several months on and off. With each job, it seems his income just remains the same or drops. But, unlike your friend, my boyfriend is very socially friendly and upbeat on the surface. He has no problem interacting with anyone. I don't understand why he doesn't have a well establiahed career by now. He is 45 years old. I struggle with this because I have worked in the same field for 20 years and make fairly good money, own a home, etc. while he struggles to pay basic bills. I don't understand it and I don't have any answers, but I can relate to the situation.

Sexslave's girlfriend,

James Fox


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