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#6596 - 07/10/05 09:55 AM Re: my name
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Registered: 06/05/02
Posts: 740
Loc: Southern California
Good luck, lester. I am sorry for the reason that brings you here and I celebrate your arrival. This is one of the safest places you can be.

I identify with this:
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over 6 feet tall and 200 plus pounds, i still cant protect myself
I have struggled in the same way. I will give this insight, which I am working on myself: in life, one needs to defend oneself less than one thinks.

We (as survivors) are so accustomed to being hurt, that we spend a lot of time worrying about who is getting ready to hurt us. We may even seek out those who may hurt us, just to relive the trauma we have suffered. I think it may be less important to protect ourselves and more important to avoid those situations in which we need protection.

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And let the darkness fear our light.

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#6597 - 07/11/05 01:41 AM Re: my name
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Registered: 07/07/05
Posts: 71
Loc: Sweden
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I think it may be less important to protect ourselves and more important to avoid those situations in which we need protection.
Now that brother was deep.

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Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow". -Anonymous

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