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#65703 - 04/18/03 05:05 PM Tried One Last Time
doctorfrau Offline

Registered: 04/11/03
Posts: 60
Loc: West Virginia (NOT western Vir...
Well, I did it - for better or worse

I had posted some questions under the "How to Help My Friend" Topic - thank you all for your replies and advice. I thought and prayed about what I should do.

I sent an e-card yesterday to my friend, and included the URL for this site. I told him that I cared about him, and if he needed me to be silent and not bother him again - that I would \:\(

I know that he read it, because the e-card companies send you a notice when your card has been picked up. Now I just have to find the strength to be true to my word and leave him alone, unless "He" contacts " Me". \:\(

I hope and pray that he comes here, and that you all will make him welcome if he does. I would love to have his friendship back again, but I mostly just want him to heal.

Thanks so much for your help \:\)

Doctorfrau (Kathy)

"...your choice, is what to DO with the time that you are given."

#65704 - 04/18/03 05:45 PM Re: Tried One Last Time
Ivanhoe Offline

Registered: 03/19/03
Posts: 1907
Like I said before, you're a good friend. We all should have friends like you. I think that you're doing it just right. Saying what you have to, but then leaving it up to him. He's got to respect that, and, you.
Good luck to you.
Here's hoping that you get everything you want and deserve------
One of your friends at MS,

"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."
George Eliot


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