Hi I will try to make this brief. I am in a committed relationship with a male incest and sa survivor. He was a ward of the state for the majority of his life. Both before and during his time in foster care he was repeatedly victimized.

To add to the complications, there is a 3,000 mile gap between us and he is not in therapy right now. I spend hours upon hours with him in the phone, but he is often very emotional when we say goodbye (even though we speak every day). I don't know how to handle this situation. I am very much in love with this man and am committed to making this relationship work, but I need some viable tools (primarily for me, but he needs some too....)

I really need some guidance. I am in Los Angeles, he is in Jacksonville FLA. Does anyone know any resources in his area that he can use?

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