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#64444 - 08/30/06 07:55 PM My Daughter's Dream
Cecilia Offline
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Registered: 08/07/06
Posts: 63
Loc: Maine
Hello,

My five year old woke up this morning and said, "Mommy, I had the best dream last night. Daddy came home and brought you a beautiful, new dress."

Children are amazing in their wisdom. To me, in her dream, she has gotten a crucial element of what is missing from her parents' relationship. My husband has been unable to honor my basic feminine nature. I don't know, maybe I'm projecting, but I thought it was pretty neat.

I smiled and said, "That's a good dream, isn't it."

I cannot say how much hearing the other partners' voices and other survivors' voices on this site has empowered me. It is amazing.

Cecilia


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#64445 - 08/31/06 07:01 PM Re: My Daughter's Dream
Brokenhearted Offline
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Registered: 08/07/06
Posts: 644
Loc: TX
Cecilia,

My 3 yr old gets the smiliest smile on her face whenever her dad and I hug, even though it isn't often. They need to see their parents affectionate. It is like I hold one end of a hammock and my husband holds the other end, and our daughter sits in the middle. If her dad and I do not seem close, it makes her insecure; what if one of us drops our end? It is like that, I truly believe.

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Brokenhearted

It were better for him that a millstone were hanged around his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
Luke 17:2

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