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#63519 - 10/24/02 11:52 AM New here
Cris Offline
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Registered: 10/24/02
Posts: 14
Good morning. My name is Cris, I am married to MJ who is an SA survivor and multiple. We have 2 small children and 1 dog. I'm just testing the waters right now. Thank you.


#63520 - 10/24/02 04:53 PM Re: New here
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
come on in, the waters ok.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with your husbands SA at all, but this is a good place to come for support and advice - for both of you if that feels right.

There's a lot of good caring guys here who are first hand experts, and some other partners who can offer help as well.

Don't be afraid to ask us ANYTHING, someone usually has an answer.

It's not an easy journey from victim to survivor, and we need all the help we can get from our loved ones, and it's great that you care enough to come looking for help.

Be strong Cris.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#63521 - 10/24/02 07:42 PM Re: New here
searching Offline
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Registered: 08/16/00
Posts: 21
Hi, Cris. I'm the wife of a survivor also, and I also have two small children. This isn't an easy thing to deal with, as I'm sure you know. We're all here to help. Let us know how we can help you out . . .

Take care,

#63522 - 10/25/02 02:11 AM Re: New here
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Hi Cris,
Just wanted to say Hi and welcome. I'm sorry for your husbands SA, and good luck. This is a great place to come and talk. Let us know if there is anything we can do.

I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#63523 - 10/25/02 11:39 AM Re: New here
Cris Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 10/24/02
Posts: 14
Thank you all for the welcome.

MJ and I have been married for 7 years. We have a 4 year old daughter and a 21 month old son. I have been a member of some other online survivor communities for some time, but never one geared towards male survivors. I have already noticed here some of the issues that MJ deals with that I haven't seen elsewhere.

Again, thank you.



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