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#62900 - 06/19/02 04:34 PM Need some help in understanding survivor's past!
soccer Offline

Registered: 06/12/02
Posts: 43
Hi. As per my previous responses, I'm a new member here. I've been in a relationship with a survivor for almost a year.

As in any "getting to know you" phase of a relationship, naturally the topic of sexual history has come up. I've learned some things about his past that quite disturbs me.

I would like to carry on an email dialogue with someone who has significant experience with a survivor or a survivor himself who has come a long way who could provide me with some insight into my boyfriend's behaviour. I want to believe he is a good, trustworthy, and moral guy, but some things he's done make it difficult to believe that and to trust him.

Anyone who is interested please reply and we can exchange email addresses. I trust that everyone will respect my wish to keep this off of a public forum. Despite my need to understand him, I want to preserve my boyfriend's privacy and dignity as much as possible.


#62901 - 06/19/02 11:41 PM Re: Need some help in understanding survivor's past!
babs Offline

Registered: 07/20/01
Posts: 59
Loc: Cub Hill, MD
Hey Soccer,

I sent you a private message via the forum earlier this evening that includes my email address. You need not worry about the privacy issue. We are all just a nickname on this forum and there is NO SUBJECT or BEHAVIOR we haven't discussed here.


#62902 - 06/26/02 03:46 AM Re: Need some help in understanding survivor's past!
Gretchen Offline
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Registered: 06/26/02
Posts: 2
I also sent you a private message with my e-mail.

#62903 - 06/28/02 11:21 AM Re: Need some help in understanding survivor's past!
soccer Offline

Registered: 06/12/02
Posts: 43
Hi - thanks for your private emails.. for some reason they were blank in the body of the email. Sorry didnt get back right away have been out of town on business.

Would appreciate another send from both of you thanks!



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