Yah this does suck.. and I dont think, knowing my fiance's low-key approach to life, that he would want this to become some kind of media circus, which is why he chose the low-key investigation approach anyhow.

I guess, the only thing that I cling to is that those who have suffered hell on earth will have some kind of justification at some point - maybe not in this life, but in the next. I recall there's some kind of a line in the bible about - it is better for you to be thrown into the sea with a huge millstone tied around your neck than cause sin against one of these little ones - or something like that.