Zanycris & catch22,
Welcome! I'm glad you found us as well but sorry you had to seek us out.
I'm sure you have heard and seen that this place is overflowing with good, decent, and sincerely helpful men. I doubt you could ever find a greater bunch of guys.
Opening up is a scary thing, but you will find safety and patient support. We have all been through--and continue to go through, although I hope to a lesser degree--some pretty heavy crap.
Post, read, heal, thats what we do, hope you get some too.
take gentle care,
Its times like these we learn to live again,
Its times like these we give & give again,
Its times like these we learn to love again,
Its times like these time & time again.
-The Foo Fighters