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#55782 - 06/05/05 04:23 AM Alternate website for spouses of SA survivors?
sophiesdad Offline

Registered: 04/30/05
Posts: 462
Loc: Florida
Hey everyone!

My wife would like to find a website where she can post and discuss with other spouses of CSA survivors. I would help her to sign up on this site, but she would immediately recognize my "handle". It's not that I have things to hide from her, but I have been painfully honest in many of my postings and I don't think that it would be helpful for her to read them.... these are issues that I grapple with and vascilate and I think she would be greatly hurt by reading some of my postings.

Does anyone know of another site similar to this for spouses? I would like her to have a place of her own to go to where she can be as free as I to discuss feelings, issues, fears, etc.

If anyone has any suggestions, I would appreciate it. Feel free to PM me.

Thanks again,


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#55783 - 06/05/05 10:55 AM Re: Alternate website for spouses of SA survivors?
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Registered: 10/22/04
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Loc: Missouri

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#55784 - 06/05/05 10:57 AM Re: Alternate website for spouses of SA survivors?
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
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Family resources

You can try there. That is part of the website I first went to for survivors, before I found this one (that is a good enough website, but primarily ladies, so I felt rather odd there).

I do not know how active it is kept, so whether the links available there are still working or such. But it is some start for you maybe.


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