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#5497 - 08/17/03 08:10 AM Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
Sick Puppy Offline

Registered: 03/30/03
Posts: 300
Loc: Nowhere Land
..when no matter what I do I get shit on.

To mock me they drew pictures of me having sex with my mom, and laughed...

And one day we will die
And our ashes will fly
From the aeroplane over the sea
But for now we are young
Let us lay in the sun
And count every beautiful thing we can see

Neutral Milk Hotel - In the Aeroplane Over the Sea

#5498 - 08/17/03 09:01 AM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
Bill_1965 Offline
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Registered: 06/29/03
Posts: 1986
Loc: Flint, Michigan

I does matter what you do, to you. To hell with those that mock you.

Be good to yourself. Take care of yourself.


Pain is Temporary; Quitting lasts Forever. - Lance Armstrong

#5499 - 08/17/03 03:47 PM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
SP Bill is right. Heed his words.

Just be the best you can and continue on the path we are all on. And you know what. There is no mockery here nor is there any from someone who truly knows what evil ensnared you. And, thank god, they are in the majority.



#5500 - 08/17/03 06:42 PM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
MEC Offline

Registered: 05/14/03
Posts: 62
Loc: NJ
Hi Josh,
Seems your writing and posts you make here don't smell, they are well thought out, de>

#5501 - 08/17/03 09:21 PM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
martin Offline

Registered: 06/08/03
Posts: 229
Loc: The Good Earth
It matters that you continue to post here. It matters that you are a survivor. It matters because you can still have a bright future in spite of your past and people like them.

That question though is one we ultimately have to answer for ourselves.

But you matter here.


Its times like these we learn to live again,
Its times like these we give & give again,
Its times like these we learn to love again,
Its times like these time & time again.
-The Foo Fighters

#5502 - 08/17/03 10:41 PM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
they're scumbags, f**k em !

You, however, are a survivor. Someone who's making a real effort to become the person you want to be - deserve to be.

Scumbags have nothing, expect nothing.

You do.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#5503 - 08/19/03 12:28 AM Re: Why does it matter what I do.. *trigger*
ScottyTodd Offline
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Registered: 02/12/03
Posts: 1561
Loc: Pennsylvania
Josh - you said "no matter what I do I get shit on"...and many here know what that feels like! But you'll not get that here. I always wanted a brother who would care about me; say supportive things about me; pick me up when I feel "shit on". I found it here among my brothers, Josh! You do too...I am sure. So many of us would want to be beside you when those "guys" tried this stuff on you because there may be one of you but you are one of us and there's hundreds of us!! We stand with you Josh! When that crushing feeling falls upon you...know we are there with you and they will never again, ever do those things!! I wish I could hurt them and give you a great big guy hug!!!! (((((JOSH)))))!!!!!

We are with you, Josh!!! ;\)


If you think you can or you can't - you're right!.......anon
It's never too late to have a happy childhood!.....anon
You're very normal for the abnormal situation you've been through..............S. Todd


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