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#52554 - 04/15/04 05:56 AM Just to Explian
coolcat Offline

Registered: 02/23/04
Posts: 109
Loc: Winnipeg MB Canada
Hey Guys:

I just want to explian what is going on with me.I am still very unsure about continuing on this site. Although I have been checking the post and Thanks to all you for your support.

You may see me pop into the chat ever so often, i probally won't say anything, please don't think i am beening rude but I am have a really hard time with what happen last week. I spent about 2 to 3 hours a nite with "Nao" and now feel I been used all over again.

I hope in time I can come in and chat again but for right now all I can do is observe. I hope you all understand.


Take it easy, Don't that the sounds of your own wheels drive you crazy....

#52555 - 04/15/04 06:24 AM Re: Just to Explian
yesac76 Offline

Registered: 03/23/04
Posts: 508
Loc: Idaho
I am sorry to hear about your decision. But, remember, we will always be here for you, my brother.

"You live it or lie it" Metallica

#52556 - 04/15/04 06:57 AM Re: Just to Explian
Andrew Offline
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Registered: 07/25/03
Posts: 1192
Coolcat, do what you need to do. Take whatever time you need. Go at whatever pace is comfortable for you. There are no expectations here, acceptance is unconditional for survivors. I think that in time you will find that there is much, much more good here to be discovered. You are part of that goodness. Peace, Andrew

there is no courage without anxiety

#52557 - 04/15/04 08:41 AM Re: Just to Explian
MikeNY Offline

Registered: 03/07/04
Posts: 927
Loc: NY
I just want to say, Hi. I hope that you will be feeling better soon. I'm sorry that another derranged monster abused your trust. I hope that you will rejoin us as soon as possible. We miss you.

"Every child asks the questions which hold the answers to the secrets of the universe, WHAT?, and WHY?". --Me

#52558 - 04/15/04 08:22 PM Re: Just to Explian
RICK57 Offline

Registered: 12/31/03
Posts: 1611
Gus - just remember there are over 1600 / 1700 people here to offer support - don't let that sick cow ruin it for you.

I felt bad enough having responded to some of those fake postings the sick cow made. I can't imagine what you feel like having spent so much time responding to the imposter.

Heather was less than 0.06% of the people here & she was found out.

If you just want to observe the site without commenting until you feel strong again, that's fine with anyone here.

Best wishes ...Rik
*Note it's global support...USA / Canada / UK / France

*Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up.
*I was seeking a way of expressing my anger - I found hope!
*There are many battles before the war is won! It can be won!

#52559 - 04/16/04 01:52 AM Re: Just to Explian
Bill_1965 Offline
Chat Mod Emeritus

Registered: 06/29/03
Posts: 1986
Loc: Flint, Michigan

It's good to see that you are still hanging around. It was nice to see you in chat, even if we didn't get to chat.

Take care, and whenever your ready, we'll listen.


Pain is Temporary; Quitting lasts Forever. - Lance Armstrong


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