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#51906 - 03/10/03 11:29 PM It takes strength not weakness
taipan Offline

Registered: 03/09/03
Posts: 57
Loc: CT
I learned in therapy tonight that it takes great strength to face and feel the pain of my past SA. I considered myself weak because I've been uncontrollably crying, and shaking with fear and anxiety; nearly 30 years later. I am so glad I have finally found help, now I can begin to take back what was so cruelly stolen from me.

#51907 - 03/11/03 11:20 PM Re: It takes strength not weakness
Wuamei Offline

Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...
Taipan, you are feeling the pain you buried, but you are also releasing it so it doesn't poison you. Yes it hurts but its a good thing too. Glad you have a good therapist to guide you. Take care.


"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."
--Daffy Duck


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