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#51848 - 03/10/03 09:05 PM so tired
al Offline

Registered: 01/08/03
Posts: 143
Loc: canada
so tired, my soul is exhausted. so very very tired i cant remeber what im doing it al for. so tired of leaning on people and being a burden they dont deserve to carry. but its so heavy i cant carry alone but there is to much guilt to ask for help. very sory to all my whineing lately very sorry made a nuisance of myself. please dont answer this i just wanted to say sorry..thats all.

Those who dance appear insane to those who cannot hear the music. Mark Kleiman

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#51849 - 03/10/03 09:11 PM Re: so tired
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
I'm sorry Al, but we need to answer, because we're here to share your load.

And there's absolutely no need to apologise to us, we help because we care my friend.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#51850 - 03/10/03 11:56 PM Re: so tired
moo2 Offline

Registered: 01/31/03
Posts: 82
Loc: pottsboro,texas
I am sorry. I absolutely have to answer to your cry for help. This site is here for one single reason --- to help survivors up from their lowest points + get the men healing. To lift one another up so we can live normal + productive lives. When someone cries out here, your cries will always be answered.
So lift up your head + rely on someone else. When you have been recovered long enough it will be your turn to carry someone else's burden. \:\)

#51851 - 03/11/03 02:58 AM Re: so tired
ecb Offline

Registered: 02/04/03
Posts: 205

Believe me I know how you feel. I feel the same way A LOT! Kim and Dave are absolutly right though, that's what we are here for. The feelings that we are a burdon on those we care about stem from our own feelings of worthlessness.

Your friends are there to help you. That's why they are your friends. If you are anything like me you would think nothing of helping them or being there for them if they needed you, and surely they don't mind helping you through a rough time of your own. I have to remind myself of this CONSTANTLY, so I can certianly sympathize with your feelings, but this is a fact.

You are not a neusiance, you are simply going through a really rough time right now, and you need a little help to make it through. There is nothing wrong with that. That's what friends are for, and that is what we here are for.

Here's hoping things look up for you. If I was a religious man, I'd pray for you.

Be gentle with yourself.


#51852 - 03/12/03 02:33 AM Re: so tired
Troy Offline
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Registered: 03/04/03
Posts: 12
Loc: West Coast
Hey guy...don't be sorry. You've got nothing to be sorry for with us. We'll gladly help you carry that load. I think you're stronger than you realize. We all get tired, brother. At least we can be tired together! I'm glad you're here. Everyone applogizes too much here. Anytime you need a friend, or you need help...just call out. You will be heard.

Love in Life...(Troy)

#51853 - 03/12/03 04:03 PM Re: so tired
Wuamei Offline

Registered: 08/19/02
Posts: 2700
Loc: The left turn I should have ta...

Fellow survivor, like so many others here, I relate to the tiredness, and being tired of leaning on others. But that's what we're all here for, man. None of us can or has to carry this load of crap alone. You're not a nuisance or whiney; you've got nothing to feel guilty about or be sorry for in being here, venting, and seeking help & support as we all do here.

What are you doing it all for? For you. And you're worth it! So it is with all of us, friend.

Troy is right. We do tend to apologize too much here.

Troy, I'm sorry for apologizing so much.

Oooopps! :p ;\) \:D


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