I do that a lot myself.
I'm 37. I've been married for 19 years.
I have an extremely hyper my sex drive which is impulsed by physical touching (kissing, holding hands, soft touch, firm touch...) -- I am also visually aroused by her, even after 19 years. --- and I didn't realize it until sooner, but she's not the reason for my hyper arousal like I once thought she was.
I can go a two days between big urges. I want to have sexual gratification inside myself once to twice a month at least. I don't usually get that feeling, and I often shy away from what that feeling of gratification offers me.