It's becoming apparent that a lot of the friction that's going on between different people here is being conducted via PM.
As you know these are completly private and we have no way of monitoring them ( nor do we want to ! )
But if you have a problem with someone else here please try to resolve it via the Moderators or Administrators before firing off a superheated PM that is only likely to make things worse.
We can't promise to make everything right, but if we know about how you feel, then at least we can begin to make any changes that might be needed.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau