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#5005 - 10/17/05 10:55 AM Re: 3 things you'd want others to know
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Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
They-, also, I should remember things to me directly. Right now, especially it is hard to think on.

1. It - not my mistake, not your mistake, not, the mistake of anyone here, any child harmed.

2. I - not that have been made to me. It - difficult to me to remember. I - not that have been made. It did not create me in whom - that still. But--

3. I - who - that another than whom I would be, if these things, they have not happened. It mentions me as I treat people, good and bad people. And people should know, it - I as I grow as I study, it forces me to operate, as I do. Not, which this person has made incorrectly to me, but they should ' pay a consequence ' some times how my head works that has been finished off past. For this purpose, I am sorry. But I cannot change it. I can try to make only it better now.


#5006 - 10/18/05 12:25 AM Re: 3 things you'd want others to know
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Registered: 10/09/01
Posts: 167

#5007 - 10/18/05 04:11 AM Re: 3 things you'd want others to know
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Still 12,

This is off topic for this thread I guess, but I just wanted to say this is a very courageous post.

On your 3e, no, I don't hate you. You are asking for help with a serious issue and you are not the only survivor with a problem like that. You deserve support the same as any of us do.

Have you checked with the mods about the "At Risk" forum? I think that's where they prefer to have such discussions, in a more confidential setting.

Take care,

Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

#5008 - 10/18/05 04:42 AM Re: 3 things you'd want others to know
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Registered: 09/26/03
Posts: 577
Loc: Took my ball and went home.
1. I have never hurt anyone but myself.
2. I have no desire to hurt anyone, only, on occasion, still, myself.
3. I will never willingly hurt anyone else because sometimes abuse creates people who nurture rather than destroy.

Livingfaraway - You requested responses to your question. You have received many thoughtful and honest answers. I wonder why you have not added your own thoughts. - John

#5009 - 10/19/05 02:17 AM Re: 3 things you'd want others to know
Curtis St. John Offline
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Registered: 01/20/04
Posts: 1798
Loc: Westchester, N.Y.
1) You can ask me anything.

2) I still have grumpy times.

3) I... have no idea what the third thing is.

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