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#47785 - 12/16/04 10:34 AM Not happy
vt93 Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 12/11/04
Posts: 15
Loc: Canada
I come here with recommend of a friend a good friend. He tales me it is safe and good here.

And I find people who just want to say very bad things about him.

He was the first people who told me i am not bad because of what i do. He was the first one to hear me cry.

I dont like this place if they talk so bad about my friend who is not bad.

He is not talkings to me anymore right now but people tell me he is overloaded. I know that i am probably part of that. But no one can say bad things about him to me.

He listens to my past life and tells me i am still a good kid. How is he bad

I dont like this

#47786 - 12/16/04 10:41 AM Re: Not happy
unknownsoldier Offline

Registered: 09/29/03
Posts: 105
Loc: Northwest

I am glad you made it here. I don't know hwo your friend is, or if there is conflict, but there's a lot of people here to make contact with , maybe see if things settle down soon. This is a good place. Sometimes there are debates or arguements, that is normal with so many differnt opinions. It is safe in that no one is going to put you down for being abused, no one is going to tell you you were bad. It wasn't your fault. You can be supported here to talk about abuse.

#47788 - 12/16/04 12:43 PM Re: Not happy
ak Offline

Registered: 01/10/04
Posts: 1491
Originally posted by vt93:

And I find people who just want to say very bad things about him.

I dont like this place if they talk so bad about my friend who is not bad.

Excuse me. But I was one of the people you are talking about here. And neither I or other person you were talking to say ANYTHING bad about your friend.

You were asking questions about this person, why he is not talking with you, other things. We both say that often, people become 'overloaded' of things, and it do not mean they are mad with no one, because you keep saying 'he is mad at me, why is he mad at me'. You would not listen to that. Then you keep asking what we mean when we say about needing time away of things, being overloaded of things, etc. It is not my place, it is not place of that other person, if we DO know more things about this person, to share them with you. If he want you to know, he will share them himself. But you keep pushing for personal information about someone who is NOT in chat room. It would be very much NOT fair for me or other person there to say anything personal of that person if he have no choice to give it himself.

You can be not happy here. That is your choice here. But you come here to board, posting of things that happen in chat room, and it is total wrong, how you say it. That we are saying bad things of this person. That is WRONG. Even if I have reason to say bad of this person, never I would do it in chat room, never I would do it to someone I do not even know. You are coming here, and you are posting in a way that is lie about me, and who I am, and that do not make me happy at all.

Think what you think. I do not care. But do not speak with me again if all you can do is lie to others of me.

I apologize to others here for my response in anger, but I do not apologize to this person. What he do is WRONG.


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#47789 - 12/17/04 09:59 AM Re: Not happy
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
I am sorry you are not happy. But considering what I know of one of the people you are talking about, I think it is quite likely that you misunderstood what they were saying. I hope you give this site another chance.


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"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963

#47790 - 12/17/04 11:33 AM Re: Not happy
vt93 Offline
Junior Member

Registered: 12/11/04
Posts: 15
Loc: Canada

I apologize I did not mean to say you said anything bad about hims.

It is just he tell me that I should come here and then he disappears. He don't say why he leaves me alone. He just tells me I am better here than he can be.

I maybe took things wrong that were said last night. I don't mean too I just want to know why he leaves me. I fell I have done something wrong for him to just leave me likes this. Maybbe you are right that he need s to talk to someone else.

I am sorry again


#47791 - 12/17/04 12:12 PM Re: Not happy
lostcowboy Offline

Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 798
Loc: Rhode Island
Hello VT93, I am fairly new here I joined on 10 November 2004. Sometimes good people rub each other the wrong way. Being that I think that all the people involved are good people this is what I think happened. How ever I also think that there was something else going on with your friend, but I don't know what it was, I think it was something personal. It is very hard to say what, as your friend took to removing his posts. Your friend started removing his posts about two or three weeks before the day of the big blowup. This is what makes me think something else was taking place.
I think it is safe to say that everyone here misses your friend and hopes that he comes back someday.

"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!


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