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#467300 - 07/06/14 05:15 AM married life t w
Tim07 Offline

Registered: 07/01/14
Posts: 11
as a sexually rapped male being married how does one be affectionate with my wife when i shut her out when she does things that set triggers off i dont understand she wants more from me then what i can put out and im starting to think and feel that it wont make it any longer.

#467323 - 07/07/14 03:44 AM Re: married life t w [Re: Tim07]
royjay Offline
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Registered: 09/29/06
Posts: 12
Loc: illinois
Try to talk to her Tim! But hang in their it will get better. You are in the right place.
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission

#467899 - 07/23/14 03:34 PM Re: married life t w [Re: Tim07]
lostsoul824 Offline

Registered: 07/22/14
Posts: 6
Loc: Winnipeg manitoba Canada
Hi Tim07, I have been married for 26 years and I have no idea what intimacy is?I try to say in touch with her feelings. for me I am a stranger to me and she is a stranger me. I wish I new how to be normal or is this normal? I now her very well in some things and when it comes to sex shes not happy or I have no clue what she wants or even who she is. for her every thing is dirty and for me every thing is boring or distant. some times I think sex is better with a hooker than with my wife just because when its over I am not expected to feel a certain way or act in some way I don't get!
Jut know you are not alone!!!


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