OTF: Expectin's question is not about her husband, but about her husband's abuser (his father, the baby grandfather).
I need to get glasses!
Sorry for the seemingly crazy answer!
I am a bit careful with kids and what they are exposed to. I always kept a watchful eye on my daughter. She was a beautiful child that never met a stranger. As a teen she developed quickly. I was always watching over her!
I don't know info would ever have knowingly left her in the company of an abuser.
I know that it took decades for me to call my abuse what it was. My denial.
That is a tricky spot.