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#46642 - 12/15/04 08:50 PM Re: Almost 32 and never had a relationship.
gs Offline
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Registered: 12/12/04
Posts: 24
Loc: christchurch
I agree with what you are saying.It is "me" that makes me feel happy (or sad for that matter.
The fact of the matter is I am happy with all other aspects of my life(more money would be nice though) but I can't help feeling there is one thing that is lacking from my life and I don't think I can be truly happy until I find it.

#46643 - 12/16/04 03:33 PM Re: Almost 32 and never had a relationship.
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
GS that will happen one day and at a time when you will least expect it. When it does happen you will know and the joy you will experience will be unlike any other. Have a great holiday season.



#46644 - 12/17/04 04:49 AM Re: Almost 32 and never had a relationship.
Leosha Offline

Registered: 06/18/03
Posts: 3614
Loc: Right here
I think you have found yourself a very good relationship, and I hope it works. It sounds as someone who can truly understand much of what you are going through, mentally. I wish you luck in your relationship, even if it remains only a friendship. It sounds as you can be good for each other.


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"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963

#46645 - 12/18/04 01:50 AM Re: Almost 32 and never had a relationship.
Ivanhoe Offline

Registered: 03/19/03
Posts: 1907
Hey, gs, we have a contact in Christchurch. Hell of a guy, I met him in Minneapolis when we attended our last conference. His name is Ken and I will PM you with his email address.
Give him a buzz and see if he has any ideas for you as far as a therapist is concerned or has any leads for others you may want to know.

Good luck,


"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."
George Eliot

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