I told him that I am giving him one year to try to get some intimacy back into our marriage. He has been in therapy for a year now and I feel that by the end of two years of weekly therapy and SA meetings should be providing some insight into his intimacy problems. Our intimacy problems have been going on for at least 13 of our 15 years of being married. I feel giving him one more year is very reasonable. I love him with all my heart, but I just can't see myself waiting years for the intimacy to return.