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#467038 - 06/27/14 03:00 AM Re: Looking for answers [Re: coffeelady]
coffeelady Offline

Registered: 05/18/14
Posts: 7
I told him that I am giving him one year to try to get some intimacy back into our marriage. He has been in therapy for a year now and I feel that by the end of two years of weekly therapy and SA meetings should be providing some insight into his intimacy problems. Our intimacy problems have been going on for at least 13 of our 15 years of being married. I feel giving him one more year is very reasonable. I love him with all my heart, but I just can't see myself waiting years for the intimacy to return.

#467040 - 06/27/14 03:27 AM Re: Looking for answers [Re: coffeelady]
trytry Offline

Registered: 02/14/13
Posts: 52
Loc: Wisconsin
People recover at different speeds. Often times there are more important things to work on before dealing with intimacy problems. Putting a timer on this issue will resolve nothing if he is already wanting to change and is going to therapy, but best of luck to the both of you.

Edited by trytry (06/27/14 03:28 AM)

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