Very happy for you, Dave! I found that a therapist who is well trained in abuse and trauma recovery can be tremendously helpful and give you an extra boost in your recovery. As you stated in your initial post, you wanted to do this at least in part for your wife- use that and other motivators you have to keep you going on this journey. I have no doubt your new therapist will be just one more of those supports for you (and in addition be able to help provide guidance and deep insight into your experiences and recovery trajectory).
,,Nun ging es immerzu, weit, weit bis an der Welt Ende."