Hear hear, on the fringe. We must live for the present as best we can and as hard as it may be, try forget things that bring us down.
Life is a rough ride at times but we should try make the best of our situation.
I see so much posted on old memories triggering fears and pain.
The thing I am trying to resolve is why think back? What is to be gained? It seems that once initial progresses made, there is no need to focus on the past abuse.
If I think on those things with no constructive reason, what else should I expect?
In a strange way I have to say that I sent thru a time of morbid reflection. It was almost like a porn addiction I did not understand.... But it was my memory.
Then it was enough. Done.
Time to take one step forward. Just one. And in time, another.