Nice article on how the abuse has motivated others to seek out new paradigms of being, what does not kill you only makes you stronger. The cliche is true my friends.
Containing and Resisting Masculinity: Narratives of Renegotiation Among Resilient Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abusehttp://www.traumacenter.org/products/pdf_files/masculinity.pdf
On a sidenote, i hope all you are catering to your recovery, doing your best and giving yourself time.
My best to all.
Blessings be bestowed upon your ails.
"Survivors need an opportunity to define their own sexuality in their own terms, rather than in reaction to the abuse, so that they stop allowing their offenders to have power over them sexually."