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#463672 - 04/04/14 09:45 PM Re: First post [Re: Mrsbee]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6387
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
welcome to

it is terrible to find out what happened to someone you love.
you are a victim of this tragedy and trauma as well, unfortunately.

he will benefit from your support, if you are strong and protect yourself.

i have been married for 23 years.
i disclosed to my wife before we got serious.
she has seen some of the worst of me,
but never lets me drag her down.

somehow we have managed to make it work,
and we have had a great deal of success raising 3 great kids,
all teenagers now.

it ain't easy, but life never is.

you will find your husband all over the pages of this forum.
hopefully it will give you some insight and
it may help you understand who you are involved with,
and what he is going through.

do not tolerate cheating or beating.
maintain your safety and dignity.


#463736 - 04/06/14 11:49 AM Re: First post [Re: Mrsbee]
Mountainous Buck Offline

Registered: 12/15/09
Posts: 1631
Loc: Minnesota
There is hope.

There is help.

Things can get better.

Learn all you can- your husband will learn a lot in treatment- those tools are effective and freely available in many 12 step groups- the al-Anon program is chick full of wisdom and helpful guidance for spouses.

Insist on honesty and do your homework on this next chapter of your lives.
We have to take responsibility for what we're not responsible for.

�It doesn't matter where you've come from,
It matters where you go" Frank Turner

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