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#4615 - 08/26/01 10:00 PM Sexual Dysfunction

I'm 19 now and I was abused when I was about 12 in a public bathroom. Ever since I was abused I have always frequented public bathrooms to masturbate (it seemed to be the only thing that totally got me off). In the bathrooms I had no problems getting off but when I was by myself at home I could not orgasm without peeing first or else I would have a painful ejaculation with my sperm being mixed with urine. I continue to have this problem and have never really been able to ejaculate at home without peeing first. Has anyone else heard of a sexual dysfunction like this?

#4616 - 08/28/01 12:05 AM Re: Sexual Dysfunction
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Registered: 02/19/01
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Loc: Anchorage,Alaska
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#4617 - 08/28/01 01:18 AM Re: Sexual Dysfunction
Brian B14 Offline

Registered: 05/04/01
Posts: 122
Loc: New York
Hi Juan,

Welcome to NOMSV. I'm sorry that I haven't heard of that particular dysfunction but I know they can come in many forms. Sexual abuse causes many problems in our ability to live our lives in what we would consider a normal way. I hope you will pull up a chair and stay a while. I'm confident you will find the people here very supportive and non-judgemental. I hope to read more of your posts.

God Bless,


#4618 - 08/28/01 01:58 AM Re: Sexual Dysfunction
getteddie Offline

Registered: 07/19/01
Posts: 226
Loc: Cub Hill, Md
Hey Juan'
Listen to Brian..he's not lieing..or was it the other way around...just kidding! I was sexually abused at 12...more than a few times and I can't climax with out being think that you have a strange problem. SA always gets his man sooner or later! Hang in there it's only sex and this can be helped by a least to except your strangest!



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