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#459463 - 01/26/14 07:01 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Magellan Offline
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Registered: 12/31/10
Posts: 1566
Loc: California
You didn't let me down either.

Follow your heart. Try, and try again. Failure is a part of success. Don't beat yourself up, rather, be pleased that you tried, and be even more pleased that you'll try again. You'll do it.

There's a reason why they made us read the book "The Little Engine that Could" as children. It's to teach us to keep trying.

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#459618 - 01/28/14 06:44 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Edited by concerned_husky (08/30/15 06:53 AM)
Edit Reason: Reducing ties with MS.
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"Only the solitary seek the truth, and they break with all those who don't love it sufficiently." - Pasternak

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#459636 - 01/28/14 09:58 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Registered: 11/13/12
Posts: 324
We're thinking of you and behind you 100%
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,,Nun ging es immerzu, weit, weit bis an der Welt Ende."

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#460045 - 02/03/14 09:08 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Edited by concerned_husky (08/30/15 06:54 AM)
Edit Reason: Reducing ties with MS.
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"Only the solitary seek the truth, and they break with all those who don't love it sufficiently." - Pasternak

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#460049 - 02/03/14 09:31 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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PM me any time with any shit you like. You know how that goes.

You also know my experience in "prison" and not being able to do a damn thing about it. To fill everyone else in, I'm referring to being a prisoner of a physically, verbally and emotionally abusive adopted mother because she won custody of me in the divorce when I was 5. A living hell the next 13 years with a break only 2-3 times a year to see Dad and experience what a completely safe, loving, normal home life was like. Back in prison, I cried myself to sleep most nights, right into adolescence.

Her perpetual abuse delivered me ready-made to my high school guidance counselor abuser who carried on with his goddamned power trip for almost a year.

The only survival experience I have from that time was closing the bedroom door and staying there, immersing myself in drawing or photos I'd taken at Dad's, or finding an excuse to go "home" as little as possible (sometimes that meant listening for hours at night to a radio station 500 miles away in Dad's city, my REAL home). And sometimes, as I re-experienced this past week, I didn't fight it. I just gave up and let the depression and despair wash over me. At least my bed felt safe.

You have my permission to veg, Husky. Put more eloquently, fuck it.

Frankly, a stuffed animal - imo doesn't matter how old you are - and a good cry worked/works well sometimes, too.

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#460050 - 02/03/14 09:33 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Hello my friend, I as wondering how are you these days. Sorry to hear about your mood while being "there", must be exhausting frown
Here comes my warmest hug for you!

(((Husky)))
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#460075 - 02/03/14 06:16 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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(((((((Husky)))))))

you still have a future. stay focused on that. do whatever you can to prepare for your final departure. try to keep your interaction with them as minimal as possible. if not possible to be physically distant, maybe you can emotionally distance yourself. hold on - your time will come. i remember how it was when i came home from college after the first year. at that time, i vowed - never again. and i made it happen. you can too.

lee
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"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"

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#460076 - 02/03/14 07:32 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Registered: 02/25/13
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Loc: The ATL

((((Husky))))

One day at a time brother. You'll get trough. Sorry things are so tough at the moment. Peace,

Ken

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#460079 - 02/03/14 07:47 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 490
((((Husky)))))
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#460122 - 02/04/14 09:12 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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(((HUGS)))
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