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#458964 - 01/20/14 04:59 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Lancer Offline

Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 901
Loc: Florida
Just checking in Husky. Hadn't realized immigration was also in the picture. Sheesh. fwiw, about the best I can offer you is that my thots are with you and I'm sending the best your way. In my book you're an absolute hero taking this step. Honestly, I can't begin to imagine how difficult it is for you. You've got about 11,000 of us behind you.

#459239 - 01/23/14 12:19 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
concerned_husky Offline

Registered: 08/30/12
Posts: 766

Edited by concerned_husky (08/30/15 10:52 AM)
Edit Reason: Reducing ties with MS.

"Only the solitary seek the truth, and they break with all those who don't love it sufficiently." - Pasternak

#459240 - 01/23/14 12:27 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6384
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
you have not let me down,

i am sorry to hear you have hit a wall.

don't get down.
i just wiped out my car today and spent the afternoon in the hospital.

dont' quit until you absolutely have no other option.


#459242 - 01/23/14 01:33 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4197
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
Husky -

if there is no other option, you do what you have to do. don't regard it as a failure - but as a "trial run." I am sure you must have learned a great deal on this attempt - about what not to do and what might work better. keep looking to the future and plan your final escape well. in the mean time, I hope you can strengthen your boundaries and protect yourself. the family dynamics may have been changed by the fact that they realize now that you are serious about achieving independence.

stay strong and please keep in touch.

we believe in you!
How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

#459408 - 01/26/14 02:49 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
JayBro Offline

Registered: 11/13/12
Posts: 325
A perceived "failure" is but a detour. You still have our support and we are there for you. Never forget your bravery and courage. We are all in this thing we call life together and it is never easy nor 100% hitchless- all kind of things can and do happen but we continue on our journey. Your dreams will come true.

You also mentioned that you didn't know what the meaning of life was, or if there was a meaning at all: life's meaning is different for every individual.

Sending you my HUGS and love.
,,Nun ging es immerzu, weit, weit bis an der Welt Ende."

#459409 - 01/26/14 03:24 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
gettingstronger Offline

Registered: 09/24/13
Posts: 317
Loc: Virginia
Hey Husky,

You haven't let anyone down. If this is what has to happen for a little while, so be it. Deep breaths, remember you're in control regardless of what they think, and you won't be there forever. Although it was hard, you've handled them before. I have no doubt you can handle them again.

Regardless of what happens, we're all here. You've got all sorts of people pulling for you. Don't forget that. Just do what you need to do and don't worry about anything else.


#459429 - 01/26/14 01:45 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
BraveFalcon Offline

Registered: 02/26/13
Posts: 1231
Loc: The ATL

Hi Husky. You definitely haven't let me down. Life can be rough and throw you a lot of curve balls. If you have to resort to going back to your parents, you will survive it. Just take it one day at a time and keep in mind that it's a long life. You have a lot of time to regroup and plan your escape. Good luck. We're all on your side. Peace,


#459430 - 01/26/14 01:57 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Sven Offline

Registered: 07/29/13
Posts: 486
I agree on the trial run traveler mentioned.
You're not a failure, you're doing the best you can and sometimes it doesn't work out. And that's ok.
Take care
The first step to living the life you want, is to leave behind what you don't want.

#459437 - 01/26/14 05:36 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]

Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 3746
You are not letting anyone down. You were seeking something new in life. If you did not try you would not achieve. Taking the chance despite the outcome, gives you strength that you may not realize you have. Whatever the outcome, remember you tried, setbacks can give strength and life lessons. You have succeeded, just by taking the desire for a new life.

Stay strong and look at the positives of the experience--what you learned, what you saw and people you met.


#459453 - 01/26/14 10:27 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Rich1967 Offline

Registered: 07/18/13
Posts: 608
Loc: PA
I'll add to the chorus - you didn't let me down. You tried and that deserves a lot credit. If you don't try you will never succeed. You will be a stronger person for trying.

Hang in there and we'll all still be here for the second attempt.


We'll also be there to get you through living with the parents till you can try again.

Good luck!
"Me too"-I don't think I will ever get tired of saying or hearing these two words.
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